Tons of different names for the same person. A very important person. A person whom (until very recently) all humans need to come to being except maybe Jesus (but thats a different story). So many different names but almost all of them universally (or earthly) understood. Yet everyone has a different story about their XY chromosome donor and I really like to listen to their stories about him. I don't really know why. Maybe it has something to do with my own dad or maybe I need to understand fatherhood or maybe everyone around me is having trouble with their dads. Personally I think the later is most likely. I bet you can count 5 things you don't like about your dad even now, and have yet to resolve or talk to him about.
I try to put my mind in a neutral state when judging these stories, but its really hard to be unbiased. Come to think of it, I think I always found fault on the parent's side. But when I think more about each conversation afterwards I feel that I am missing a very important input. I never get to hear from the parent's side of the story. I do have heard very few stories from the parent's about their sons and daughters and surprisingly its the inverse of their children. This makes me wonder a lot. Surely they both can't be telling the truth and I think non of them is lying either. There is then a high chance that both of them are choosing to ignore the parts where they are to take responsibility. I can't help but wonder if this gap in communication between the parents and their children is just a local issue or part of all human society.
Maybe one day I will figure out this gap myself when I become a dad.
I try to put my mind in a neutral state when judging these stories, but its really hard to be unbiased. Come to think of it, I think I always found fault on the parent's side. But when I think more about each conversation afterwards I feel that I am missing a very important input. I never get to hear from the parent's side of the story. I do have heard very few stories from the parent's about their sons and daughters and surprisingly its the inverse of their children. This makes me wonder a lot. Surely they both can't be telling the truth and I think non of them is lying either. There is then a high chance that both of them are choosing to ignore the parts where they are to take responsibility. I can't help but wonder if this gap in communication between the parents and their children is just a local issue or part of all human society.
Maybe one day I will figure out this gap myself when I become a dad.








